I called the midwife at 7:30pm on the 13th, she advised me to take Caster oil... which I started 1 tblsp every hour (mixed with vanilla milkshake). At 11pm she called again for an update. I started contracting lightly, they were every 3-4 minutes apart. She decided to come and do a check. it took her an hour to get here... so around 12:30 she did a check, I was still 3-4 cm's. She broke the rest of my water/membrane... and that started everything. I went to 8-9cm's at 4:30am... I needed to push, so I started pushing.. at 4:55am Lilyana joined us.
The birth was at home... and the experience was absolutley amazing. We were surrounded by ppl who loved us.. all sitting around me on the bed... it was awesome. I wouldn't change it for anything. I would always suggest a home birth now over a hospital birth if mom and baby are both able/healthy.
David did such a good job supporting me through labor this time around, so very pleased with that. I think having a home birth made the difference. He was free to be himself, and it was so much more comfortable. I could take a shower when I wanted to, go to the washroom when I wanted too.. drink & eat if I wanted too (which I didn't cause it was so intense for those 3.5 hrs.)
My brother Steven actually stayed in the room while I gave birth, that ment a lot to me... more than I think he knows. mom wasn't here, accept in spirit, so having him here was so special. Brandi & Tressa and Steve were on one side, Jackie & David on the other, midwife ready to catch.
Midwife that was attending and caught Maera was Andrea Kenny... supported by Shawn (dunno her last name). They were FABulous!!
The only thing that bugged me was, I was grossed out because the caster oil made delivery messy... embarassing yes, but still worth it. Active labor only last like 3.5 hours hehe. So it went quickly!
We're doing well now, Lily hadn't been gaining her weight back... she went from 9lbs 6oz, to 8lbs 6 oz... and stayed there for like a week and a half... didn't lose anymore, but hadn't gained any either. Sh ewas weighed this lasst saturday and went up to 8lbs 15 oz... so I am so much more happy about that. She gets weighed again tomorrow... so I'm hoping for more weight gain. She is being breast fed.
Below are a couple of pictures of Lilyana, and us girls all together! :):)


TTYS
XOXO